[ Read eBook ] Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll ChangeAuthor Robin Norwood – Collateralloan.co

This text is suitable for the reader for whom being in love means being in pain Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behaviour which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood I have to be honest that in the span of 12 days of reading this book I have noticed a shift in my attitude I became irritable,critical, maybe intolerant That s definitely unpleasant, because the book reminded me so much of my sad adolescence.My story is nowhere near as catastrophic as the incredible, inspirational stories shared in the book but I m from a broken family and my childhood adolescence basically consisted of numerous memories of my parents quarreling and fighting Reading I have to be honest that in the span of 12 days of reading this book I have noticed a shift in my attitude I became irritable,critical, maybe intolerant That s definitely unpleasant, because the book reminded me so much of my sad adolescence.My story is nowhere near as catastrophic as the incredible, inspirational stories shared in the book but I m from a broken family and my childhood adolescence basically consisted of numerous memories of my parents quarreling and fighting Reading Women Who Love Too Much has definitely opened my wounds that have already long been healed.The reason why I bought this book, and why I got astonished and excited when I stumbled upon it, is because I ve always thought I AM a woman who loves too much as evidenced by my past relationship s, ages ago Although I fairly think I ve gone a long way since and am fully recovered, at a young age I am in this process of loving myself, living life to the fullest By doing this I know I m taking baby steps towards preparing myself for the man I ll be with for the rest of my life, constantly thinking and living according to the principle that I am not a half waiting to be made whole.And that s what this book is all about.Sure, Robin Norwood s writing has reminded me of my previous painful life, but I closed the book with a smile on my face, because, as she said With understanding comes the opportunity for choice, so the greater your understanding, the greater our freedom of choice I opened myself to whatever new ideas, knowledge and perspective this book has to offer TheI learned, theI knew, theI understood, theforgiving I had to do, theI had to let go and accept and that s the best part of reading the book it cracks you open, it compels you to stop, let go, live, love and accept yourself first.Thank you, Robin Norwood Your unparalleled passion, expertise and experience will continue to educate and heal a lot of people, myself included.Highly recommended changed my life..again My sister gave this to me, the first time i read it, I got mad the second time I read it, I cried the 3rd time I read it, I left my husbandbut be warned, unless God changes you inside, if we don t learn from our past, we WILL repest itin bad relationshipsthat s why i am single. Honestly, this book allowed me to realize what I personally was is doing wrong in relationships This book states how our childhood can affect our future relationships with partners and friends, stories from women with different traumas they ve experienced in their life, the problems they encountered with their destructive partners, and the reasons why they are attracted to them I ve dog eared so many pages that I thought had very good key points to keep in mind I recommend this to all types Honestly, this book allowed me to realize what I personally was is doing wrong in relationships This book states how our childhood can affect our future relationships with partners and friends, stories from women with different traumas they ve experienced in their life, the problems they encountered with their destructive partners, and the reasons why they are attracted to them I ve dog eared so many pages that I thought had very good key points to keep in mind I recommend this to all types of women who have discovered themselves in turbulent relationships with the same pattern of unhealthy, agonizing emotions This book affirms us of our own self worth, how to seek help and not be ashamed of loving too much, and how you can continue a healthy lifestyle of trying to make yourself happy first This book changed my life I ve never believed in self help books, but this book is just unbelievable It makes you feel as if someone just entered your mind, read every word and then put it down in a way that almost makes you shiver It s so perceptive, it s almost uncanny If you are or ever have been in a relationship that s meantpain than love,tears than joy andgiving than what you re getting in return, this book is for you It s the biggest wake up call you ll ever get I This book changed my life I ve never believed in self help books, but this book is just unbelievable It makes you feel as if someone just entered your mind, read every word and then put it down in a way that almost makes you shiver It s so perceptive, it s almost uncanny If you are or ever have been in a relationship that s meantpain than love,tears than joy andgiving than what you re getting in return, this book is for you It s the biggest wake up call you ll ever get I cannot recommend it enough I hated the book, threw it in a corner, picked it up again and weeped until the end. Very insightful book I appreciated the ideas that you cannot change your partner, you only can change yourself When you focus on all of your partner s flaws and think that if they change you will be happy, you are using that as an excuse not to address your own problems Also that being selfless can be a form of manipulation There is definitely truth in that if we focus on ourselves and strive to be better and give less focus on our partner s issues by trying to control or change them, th Very insightful book I appreciated the ideas that you cannot change your partner, you only can change yourself When you focus on all of your partner s flaws and think that if they change you will be happy, you are using that as an excuse not to address your own problems Also that being selfless can be a form of manipulation There is definitely truth in that if we focus on ourselves and strive to be better and give less focus on our partner s issues by trying to control or change them, that leads to a healthier life and a healthier relationship dynamic I am not a fan of self help books generally speaking, so when a friend who d been in a situation similar to mine suggested I read this book, I blew it off for almost a year I was pretty sure I d be too busy rolling my eyes at it to actually absorb anything written on the page As it turns out, this book spurred me to take a long look at myself and the choices I d made both healthy and un and to ask myself a lot of questions I hadn t thought to ask myself in a very long time, if ever. Yes, Women Who Love Too Much is the quintessential self help book It fits every stereotype given to this genre That being written, I read this at a time when I needed the help and to understand relationships It was after a particularly devastating relationship and I was in a dark place I don t remember if anything impacted me when I read the book, but years later I find myself flashing back to it from time to time, remembering something small from the book and being able to make some sense o Yes, Women Who Love Too Much is the quintessential self help book It fits every stereotype given to this genre That being written, I read this at a time when I needed the help and to understand relationships It was after a particularly devastating relationship and I was in a dark place I don t remember if anything impacted me when I read the book, but years later I find myself flashing back to it from time to time, remembering something small from the book and being able to make some sense of things or relate certain issues in the present back to the information that seeped through There have been many Ohhhhhyeah, I remember reading that moments for me.It s not going to change your life or save you from falling into your darkest places, but it s a good book for women to read if only to understand certain patterns of behavior that either we, individually or collectively, put into our relationships While I don t remember it to be preachy, it does a good job of explaining why we may do certain things and why we shouldn t.Yes, it s kitschy and you might be embarrassed if someone sees that you re reading it, but I d recommend this for all women Even if you do not fall in this category you will benefit a lotI m glad I read it and I think it is a must read for all women